Internet dating dos and donts
Much like the set of rules on how to be a server, bartender or hostess, there should be a guide on how to be a decent customer.
Some customers seem to have forgotten that the staff that takes care of them is made up of people who are not just your servants for the extent of however long it takes you to eat.
But one thing is for sure: there’s a reason they call it a break-up, and that’s because it was broken.
In fact, they may have deleted your contact info from their cell the second you left each other.
Keeping in touch with some random dude your ex works with is not going to re-kindle your relationship, no matter what you tell yourself. Don’t stand outside of their window with a boombox. Do not—under any circumstances—stand outside their window with a boombox. Like everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men.Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that address sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality. And feel free to leave your own suggestions of sex and dating topics in the comments. Follow me on Twitter @Bad Alex Cheves and visit my blog, The Beastly Ex-Boyfriend.Check out the following dos and don'ts of dining from me, a server who has had enough.DON'T: Wave to get someone's attention as if you're drowning.